The essence of a child’s curiosity is always great. Children always want to understand something well. The older they want to better understand why they think something is important and why they feel something is important.
Despite his age, it is important that when determining the rules and expectations at home, your children understand that there is no opportunity to question the rules and determine the consequences of these rules violations. Small children usually do not understand a long explanation about something that is encountered, such as why should not flying kites in the house. So they often ask why and why when they were told not to play something. Give a brief explanation and correct and should not be authoritarian.
Child when the greater will have a curiosity greater. They need more explanation from you. When they ask why they are not allowed in the meantime, it is best to answer directly. The answer given must be consistent and clear. Do not give different answers to the same problems.
Children are given a challenge to you to ask why the rules are enforced. If asked like that do not angry or frustrated; give a proper understanding of them. The kids have a sense of suppressed anger and disappointment. Let them express these feelings. Once again listen to your children, and ask for regulations to figure out why they feel like it. At certain times of children experiencing difficult circumstances. Listen actively and note what is presented. This shows that our attention to them.