Disciplining children sometimes need a way to soft sometimes the hard way. However, studies show that parents with low incomes tend to be more harsh discipline. It is based on the belief that the value of higher pressure will be useful for children.
Parents are sometimes also experience high work pressure or frustration. This condition is sometimes triggered to make act of strict discipline at all to children. It is important to note that children must take action proportionate. Punishing the children too hard can have a negative impact children.
Much research has been conducted on the behavior of children with harsh punishment. Discovery research shows that parents who have high work pressure are more likely to stress and they react emotionally to their children’s behavior. Therefore, they do a hard discipline. Parents like that ultimately make the children in conditions that are sometimes dangerous. In this case the parents need help from others to use a more appropriate disciplinary strategies.
It is also important for parents to pay attention to the needs of children. Children also need punishment than praise. Sometimes parents can not praise the children for doing good and doing the hard punishment if it is to know the kids go wrong. This is an action that is not fair to the kids. Make your kids love to do some good things to praise good deeds. and give an appropriate disciplinary action if the children do wrong.